Every outfit that ever sold you out had a page like this, written so you’d quit reading. Here’s ours in plain English. If any of it bothers you, say so and we’ll talk about it.
That’s the list. We don’t ask your birthday, your address, your phone, or anything else we haven’t got a use for.
One thing: point you at your own backyard. Your neighborhood tag helps local things surface for local folks. That’s the only reason any of it exists.
We use AI to draft headlines, pull a picture off a link, and flag anything that needs a second look. A person with a name approves everything before it publishes, and we say on the page where AI helped.
AI never writes as you and never writes as a neighbor. Anything in quotes on this site is somebody’s own words, exactly as they typed them.
Nobody here reads your mail. A letter goes from you to one page and stops there. It is not scanned, not summarized, not flagged, and not used to work out what to show you. No AI touches it — not to draft, not to check, not to sort.
That includes us. The wall on a page is public, so a note left there gets a quick AI look for the obvious nasty stuff before it goes up, and a person settles anything it flags. A letter gets none of that. The people who run Fairly Connected cannot open one, and the database is built so they cannot — an admin here has a desk, not a letter opener.
If a letter is still on the road when either person closes the path, it comes back unopened. The sender keeps their own words. The person it was going to never receives it, sees it in their Post, or gets told it came back.
If a letter you got needs dealing with, you can report it. Reporting it is what hands the Desk a copy — nothing else does. A named person reads that copy and decides what happens. They can dismiss the report or pause the account that sent the letter, and their name and decision stay on the record. If you stick a letter on your fridge, the person who wrote it has to say yes first, because those are their words going public, not yours.
This part is not running yet. When letter notices begin, we will keep a small delivery record so the same notice does not go out twice: the recipient’s profile ID, the letter IDs, whether each one came in or is still on the road, the date, the result and the mail service’s receipt. It will not hold a letter’s words, picture, sender, email address or block list.
Ask and we’ll send you everything we’ve got on you. Ask and we’ll delete it and your page with it. No forms, no retention window, no talking you out of it — hello@fairlyconnected.com.
We’ll say so in the morning post before it does, not after.
Last looked at October 4, 2026. New to the place? Here’s how the whole thing works.